i went into the selector and set the maximum amount of RAM i could this is what i got
2016-07-04 17:21:10:505 (dinput.dll) : Applying JVM Memory Settings from IL-2 Selector...
2016-07-04 17:21:10:505 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -Xms888M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:505 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -Xmx888M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:506 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -Xss8192K
2016-07-04 17:21:10:506 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -XX:PermSize=128M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:506 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -XX:MaxPermSize=128M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:506 (dinput.dll) : Checking duplicate JVM Options...
2016-07-04 17:21:10:507 (dinput.dll) : Checking mandatory JVM Options...
2016-07-04 17:21:10:507 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -Djava.class.path=.
2016-07-04 17:21:10:507 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -Xverify:none
2016-07-04 17:21:10:507 (dinput.dll) : Adding JVM Option: -Xcomp
2016-07-04 17:21:10:508 (dinput.dll) : Final JVM Option List:
2016-07-04 17:21:10:508 (dinput.dll) : -Xms888M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:508 (dinput.dll) : -Xmx888M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:508 (dinput.dll) : -Xss8192K
2016-07-04 17:21:10:509 (dinput.dll) : -XX:PermSize=128M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:509 (dinput.dll) : -XX:MaxPermSize=128M
2016-07-04 17:21:10:509 (dinput.dll) : -Djava.class.path=.
2016-07-04 17:21:10:509 (dinput.dll) : -Xverify:none
2016-07-04 17:21:10:510 (dinput.dll) : -Xcomp
2016-07-04 17:21:10:510 (dinput.dll) : IL-2 Process ID = 00027F54
2016-07-04 17:21:10:510 (dinput.dll) : Starting Watchdog at C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\IL 2 Sturmovik 1946\bin\selector\basefiles\IL-2 Watchdog.exe 3
2016-07-04 17:21:10:518 (dinput.dll) : Watchdog process started.
2016-07-04 17:21:10:553 (watchdog) : IL-2 Parent Process Handle = 00000100, ID=00027F54
2016-07-04 17:21:10:556 (watchdog) : IL-2 Watchdog started.
2016-07-04 17:21:10:558 (watchdog) : Splash Screen Mode = 3
2016-07-04 17:21:10:563 (watchdog) : Message Window Created.
2016-07-04 17:21:10:577 (dinput.dll) : Hooked "SAS_CreateJavaVM" function activated, injecting JVM Parameters
2016-07-04 17:21:10:584 (dinput.dll) : JVM Parameters injector deactivated