@ throttle_control
After reading all your posts on this forum and your participation in the server's chat I have come to the following conclusions:
-you are one of those who consider that the main defect of the universe is that it does not turn around you
-you are a bit of a problematic and confrontational person
-it seems that your mother (or someone else) has told you so many times that you are unique, wonderful and special that you have started to believe it
During the last two hours I have been testing new installations of UP_3.3 according to existing instructions on this forum. I have done four in total on both 4.10.1 and 4.12.2m, in none of them I haven't found any problems (except for the requirement to activate Nvidia_Screenmode with patch 8, but I don't think you can call this a problem). I have connected to the server without any problems both directly and via Hyperlobby with all four installations. I would like to know what is your way of installation (no doubt incorrect), because I noticed that in your Generic Mod Enabler, where #UP#_Enable_UP3.3 doesn't change to #UP#_Enable_UP3.3###_OLD_DONT_ACTIVATE_### after installing patch 8 as it has done in all my installations. It might be a good idea to read the installation instructions carefully and try to install everything correctly. And in case of any doubts or problems, ask for explanations or help in a courteous and COHERENT way. Your "But I noticed that the directions on how to install are contradictory." shows that you do not read things carefully and completely (if I am wrong, I would be delighted if you could show me these contradictions).
I also see that you have Widescreen Support enabled...
As for the Home Base problem, as I have had it a few times I can assure you that it is not a problem of bad installation or malfunctioning of the server, it is easily solved as Storebror has answered, with patience. In my case sometimes connection problems were the reason (the fact that you have fibre does not guarantee anything, on highways there are also clogs at 20km/h).
I'm curious, where did you get this story about "remember when this game came out and I remember when a certain someone cracked the source code...."? sounds great, have you seen it on Netflix?
I'm not going to continue, because it's not worth it, I can only tell you that if I were a moderator, you wouldn't be here anymore...