Well, thank you all for your answers!
@Monty: I didn't post a particular mission, because it happens every time in any campaign I play. There are only some differences in how much I am affected.
For example some of the worst missions I encountered so far are from the JG 5 Campaign of the Desastersoft addon "Der Eismeerjäger". It seems to me that scripted campaigns are affected the most, albeit the Fall Blau addon isn't as badly affected. Both of these campaigns use only stock planes, of course.
Boelke's Dynamic Campaigns work rather well in comparison for example.
The problem wit a reduced Air.ini for me is that I fly campaigns right across the board (mostly official ones I paid for), from the Pacific to Russia to Normandy and back (on both sides, although I fly mostly German planes...) So I'm likely to encounter most of the planes that are there at one point or the other.
Isn't it very strange anyway that planes in a text file like the air.ini that aren't even in the mission can still affect that mission? To me that sounds like a huge bug...
I know it's a little hard to help me with this strange problem and am very grateful for you trying anyway.
And I'm almost happy that for once I'm not the only one having a particular problem...
(normally no one has ever heard of the problems I report
)
And while I have to admit that planes look better now, they can not compete with more modern sims with much higher poly counts in which I have no problems playing whatsoever - even the crappy WarThunder does it way better...
It's really a pitty because I like Il-2 very much - that old lady accompanied me since FB first came out - damn I'm getting old 
Edit: Oh and by the way, when I play the same campaigns in HSFX, everything works as expected. ???
Yes indeed! eMeL and I were talking about this last night. - The glory days of European Air War with hundreds of aircraft present in huge dogfights and strategic raids. It appeals to the 'film director' inside of us. Even after landing, or crashing, we would watch the other aircraft make their way back home.
Earlier written missions worked well with older graphics and now the updated il2 often struggles with those huge performances.
However, Il2 does still deliver plenty of excitement and action for the pilot. Il2's Me262s, FW190's or P-51s, Spits, Zeros, you name it; are a visceral experience. One-on-one air combat, or even a couple of dozen, is still a swirling mayhem of speed and death.
The mission builder remains the best tool in any sim. Long after the linear games have been played and done we can make new missions in Il2 and do them better than many modern sims in most cases.
So we do have put the 'epic movie' to one side in many cases. In talking with so many air combat veterans over the years, from WWII (all dead now) to Korea, Vietnam, the Falklands, the Middle East. - Most combat flying is quite methodical, well planned and almost tedious - interspersed with periods of intense excitement and an unbelievable adrenalin high.
Dynamic Campaigns are getting better all the time and Azura's latest upgrades will be an integral part of CUP in the near future.
I love the scripted campaign even more. Just read the stories that Poltava writes so beautifully, of the painstaking research of Hamm66's Battle of Britain and Lancaster missions. I have a few new ones coming too. They feel personal, historic, and still relevant.
So yes we have to re-design/convert and make new missions, and we all know a bit more about why older missions often don't work so well any more.
On the other hand; I have re-visited European Air War and the like - At the time it was beautiful - Now I can't believe the hideous and primitive conditions we accepted!
Going forward - Many new sims still lack soul - I'm a sucker and try everything that's there. But where is there a better mission builder tool than 412-FMB and variety? - Nothing comes close to what we have in CUP.
Il2 has its faults, its the most irritating thing there is at times. It defies logic and pisses me off all the time with its weird ways and capricious habits. - Sorry, I appear to have started to talk about my wife, you know what I mean...