Hi btasm.
I do not use fuel mixture (never learned how it works), but I've made extensive use of prop pitch and it is quite satisfactory.
It is said that prop pitch resembles to car gears (in case you've ever driven a car with manual gearshift). However, you do not use the prop pitch exactly as you would do with gears in a car.
100% prop pitch is equivalent to the first gear: it is the most powerful set and leads to higher RPMs. Prop pitch progressively lower than 100% would be equivalent to the second, third, fourth... gears. Lowering the prop pitch makes that the engine works more efficiently since it decreases the propeller air resistance, also decreases the RPMs, and what is more important, decreases the engine temperature.
When you need full power (as in take-offs and landings), prop pitch must be kept at 100%. When you start a car, you use the first gear and quickly you must turn to second and third gears to avoid reaching too high RPMs. However, you don't need to lower prop pitch so quickly in planes. RPMs are automatically kept in a safe range even at full throttle. I don't know if it is true in real life, but in IL-2 you can keep prop pitch at 100% all the time withouth experiencing serious trouble.
So, when should you change prop pitch? Basically it is good to lower the prop pitch when you are cruising at a constant elevation. If you are climbing, you will probably need all the power your plane can develop (100% prop pitch). Once reached your final elevation, you can lower prop pitch and throttle (I usually set both them to 70%, 60% or 50%).
You will observe two good things. (1) Even with lower throttle, you will fly slightly faster because the propeller offers less resistance to air.
(2) RPMs will decrease (you can see it looking at the RPM gauge), so the engine will cool down and you won't have to worry about engine overheating for a while.
However, when I have to engage a combat, I quickly increase prop pitch to 100%, to keep full power during turns and climbings.
In brief:
- Use prop pitch at 100% whenever you are not flying in a safe, straight course.
- Set prop pitch between 50%-70% when cruising and flying in formation, to keep your engine cold. You can make light adjustments of the throttle and prop pitch until getting the same speed as your formation mates. For example, if you are flying too slow, you can lower prop pitch to get some extra speed; or you can increase prop pitch to 100% to lower speed quickly as you do with the engine brake in cars.
- In combat, if you need to make a long dive to escape from your enemy, you can decrease prop pitch up to 0% (and close radiators if they are opened) to reduce the air resistance and get a faster dive. Once you are close to the ground, you need to set prop pitch to 100% again to keep on flying.
Concerning "prop. pitch auto", I think it has to do with German planes (such as Messerschmitts), which I rarely use, so I cannot help you there.
I hope you find it useful. All that I've said has been personally tested in IL2, and it seems to work. Probably it doesn't apply to real flight, because it seems that engine behaviour is not exactly modelled in the game, so you can find different or even contradictory statements anywhere on the web.
I recommend you to try and test in different conditions until you find your style of flying. It is very pleasant to learn a new "trick" that permits you to escape from your enemies in hard times.
I also recommend you to use some hardware with two levers for throttle and prop pitch for better control and higher immersion.